“I don’t understand how a woman can leave the house without
fixing herself up a little – if only out of politeness. And then, you never
know, maybe that’s the day she has a date with destiny. And it’s best to be as
pretty as possible for destiny.”
–Coco Chanel
Lets think about this for a minute. You know that woman who always looks put together? Her hair perfectly done, pencil skirt fits perfectly, blouse void of any wrinkles and makeup just perfect? Fortunately, I know quite a few. Ok. So what if you don't know her... What would you assume her to be like? Yes, I know you should never judge a book by its cover - but its hard not to think that this well put together woman's life is frazzled when she looks ready to take on the world.
A woman who is put together can set the tone for every situation she goes into just by simply taking the time to present herself in the best way possible. And no, Its not only out of politeness for others. Its for her. She instantly feels good, becomes a bit more confident and stands a bit taller.
How many times have you run to the grocery store in sweats, made a trip to the bank in your college t-shirt ? I'm not saying you need to be carpet ready at all times, what I am saying is just to take a minute to throw on a pair of jeans that actually fit. Instead of your gym shoes throw on ballet flats and if you really only feel like wearing your college tee ....just throw a classic trench coat on over top and you will instantly look polished. I'm not asking for more time to get ready... it does take just as long to throw sweats on as it does jeans. Some women believe they jeans aren't as comfortable in sweats...bologna. They make jeans now that feel like leggings. A small change makes a huge difference.
Here are a few of the benefits of changing out of your pj's/lounge
wear as soon as you begin your day:
SET THE RIGHT TONE FOR THE DAY
Running out the door in a disheveled mess is not a good start to the day. I get it, your busy. Instead of grabbing your wrinkled t-shirt throw on something that fits and is already ironed. Doing so will set the tone for a more calm start to the day and make you feel ready for what the day may bring.
COMMAND RESPECT
How we dress communicates to others how we view ourselves. If you dress professionally and appropriately for the environment you are more likely to be treated the exact same way.
CREATE YOUR OWN LUCK
As you start to take care in your appearance it will prepare you to have a good day, and should an opportunity arise unexpectedly , you’ll be ready to take it on.
LOOKING GOOD HELPS YOU TO FEEL GOOD
There are days when getting out of bed requires the jaws of life and pms has made me feel like a bloated mess. It just feels impossible sometimes to put myself together. Yet, something happens when I finally do get up and get ready. It instantly projects a positive feeling within and puts out to the world that I'm not that moody grumpy person I might have felt like inside. After some time, my mood shifts. I start to feel better and my day is better.
I want to finish this post off with something very important. Dressing well doesn’t require a big budget. You can easily buy a Chanel suit coat and look just as polished and put together as the woman who buys at consignment. Its not about the money you spend on your wardrobe its about your creativity and just taking a moment to switch into something that fits and is presentable.
Treat yourself with respect and take time to feel good. You are totally worth it.
xo
Meems
