There is nothing more attractive to me than a good soul. A loyal friend. Someone who is true to their own personal values. An honest hard working person. A person with positive outlook.
To me, this kind of beauty is the most attractive. The kind of beauty that attracts love and let’s face it, nothing is more beautiful than love.
Instead of investing your money with name brand beauty products, weight loss pills and trendy clothes take a step back and reevaluate your inner self. When the inner you is beautiful you will ultimately attract so much more than makeup could ever buy.
Here are some ways you can naturally become a more attractive version of yourself.
- Lift up others. Be supportive of others dreams and aspirations. A good friend is your biggest cheerleader.
- Always do the right thing. If your heart feels that something is wrong, don’t do it. Trust your gut and do what you know to be right. There is nothing worse than knowing you did something unethical or hurtful and having pain fester internally when you know you should have done the right thing.
- Stop gossiping. Have you ever heard the saying: Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, and small minds gossip about people. That pretty much sums it up. Nothing uglier than a person talking about another. Put that energy into something positive and better yourself.
- Stop Judging. The truth is we all have our own personal journey. Just because you don’t agree with them doesn’t make them wrong. Be supportive of healthy decisions. If it’s not your way doesn’t mean it’s not the correct way. If everyone thought like you the world would be quite boring.
- Be Positive. You should never allow time for negativity. Keep it positive and keep it moving. Negative energy drains you and people around you. Try as hard as you can to be a more positive person. Something will come of your positive thinking.
- Embrace your “ism’s”. If you don’t embrace the real you eventually you will tire of the facade you created and people won’t grow to love the real you. Listen, I’m not by any means normal. I’m a little crazy at times and I fully own it. Those around me accept me for me because I’m authentic to who I am. Its way more interesting than to try and mold yourself into some “idea” of what you think is normal or acceptable. Embrace the real you.
- Do it with Passion. If you do things without passion you are merely existing and start to become a robotic shadow of yourself. Great things come when you add passion. Your life becomes more enriched and your passion contagious.
- Learn to be Gentle. Don’t force anything in life. What happens if you force a flower to bloom before its ready? Some things in life need time, be gentle and let it happen naturally.
- Give words of encouragement to those that need it. Sometimes just a warm word from a friend is just what that person needs. We all have times in our lives when we lose hope, sometimes hearing encouraging words gives us that flicker to relight the flame we once had.
- You don’t always have to be right. I'm still learning this one and it’s a challenge. Thinking you are always right narrows your world. Open your mind up and your world will become so much more enriched.
- Be an honest person and practice loyalty. In any of your relationships, whether it be love, professional or friendship honesty and loyalty must be a priority. Keep these two at the top of your list and your relationships will soar to new unimaginable heights.
- Welcome the journey. Life happens and sometimes we aren’t open to the changes. We have no idea what lies ahead and connecting the dots today is nearly impossible. Have patience and know we are all on our personal journey. Enjoy the today's and don’t rush the tomorrows. Eventually we will understand why and where we had to go to get where we will ultimately be.
Hopefully you can see how these 12 tips can make a person more naturally beautiful. I’m lucky enough to know quite a few people that have taught me these by just being around the. I’m not perfect and I learn everyday but I can tell you this, I make an effort to remind myself of these qualities. If I can even just succeed at one a day I’ve had a better day and feel more beautiful. Cheers to a better day to you!
What are some tips that you can share that make you feel beautiful from within?
Xo
Meems
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